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Your Hobbies Don’t Have to End After High School.

This article was originally published on linkedin.com.

In college, education is stressed above all. Classes are mandatory, grades determine your future and a degree is everyone’s end goal. You meet someone new and, after asking for their name, there’s a 95% chance you’re immediately going to ask what their major is. It’s the natural flow of a college interaction. But that’s not how it once was.

In high school, it’s very rare to ask someone about the classes they’re in or their focus in electives. Most of the time, conversations containing the phrase, “What do you want to do after graduation?” don’t even begin to surface until junior or senior year. Before, the conversation focuses on hobbies and activities.

“What do you like to do for fun?”

“Do you play any sports?”

“Are you in any clubs or other extracurriculars?”

I’m sure you have all had to answer these questions at one point or another, even if it just came from your parents’ friends. So why does one identifier of your character slowly fade as a new one takes place?

My identifier is dance. I’ve spent 19 years of my life in a dance studio. Preschool changed to middle school and middle school changed to college, but dance has always been my constant. No matter what my week looked like, I always went to dance. A hobby became part of my identity. I could not let it go just because my life was transitioning after high school.

The summer before I started college, I looked into the dance organizations that UNC offered. I couldn’t just identify as a student and nothing else. I joined Blank Canvas Dance Company the first semester of my freshman year. Why does this matter?

  • I started off college with the same constant that had been there for every other stage of life. With all of the nerves and stress over starting a new chapter, it was the one thing I could count on to keep me sane.
  • I was surrounded by 200+ women who shared a common interest with me. It was the easiest way I found to make friends outside of class.
  • I became involved on-campus outside of the classroom. We had various performances and events around campus that helped me acclimate to this new world I was in.
  • I had a core group to turn to. The women I danced with were the same ones I was going to grab dinner with, hang out with and have a place to turn when I needed someone to talk to.
  • I had a “break” from college. I could focus on doing a hobby I loved while being able to separate it from all of the class and homework I had.
  • I was identified by something other than my major.

The last point was the biggest thing for me. We’re all in college to help educate and prepare us for a career. But we are all more than just our career. Our little interests and hobbies contribute far more to our personality and identity than our careers ever will. So why stop pursuing them after high school?

Many college campuses offer a wide variety of opportunities for students to keep doing what they love! And if they don’t? Start it yourself.

Keep pursuing your passion. You’re more than just a student.